Words
I didn’t plan to say but needed to.
Somewhere between ennui and spark, my raw, unfiltered bits are here.
I’m a nerdy girl with a pen—the type who always carries a black Pilot Precise V5, has read thousands of books, and still scribbles in the margins. Sometimes I’m just writing back to an author who’ll never read it.
Maybe one day, all these scribbles will grow into books of their own.
Spider-Man and the Rubber Band Model
The Rubber Band Model isn’t just a framework for ambition. It’s a way to understand identity, love, healing, and the sacred friction of growth.
The Best Things Are Freckled
Love that lasts has seasons. It fades, returns, reshapes. It holds when skies go dark, bears storms like weathered wood—and stays.
Cutting Rapunzel’s Hair
Real growth doesn’t begin when we add more to our lives. It begins when we’re willing to release what no longer serves us.
I’m Not Interested
Saying it can feel strange at first—too direct, too final. But it’s a quiet decision to stop trading our time, energy, and attention for approval.
Nice Isn’t a Strategy
Game theory shows that stable outcomes only emerge when players adjust their strategies—breaking old patterns to create new possibilities.
50 Shades of Human
Identifying as “super straight” in an era that honors fluidity is also a journey that can be raw, confusing, and deeply transformative.
Fortune Favors the Bold
Belief is only the beginning. The Law of Attraction works best when you stop waiting for signs and start moving like the outcome is already yours.
Bare Necessities
Choosing the bare necessities frees us to be truly present, creative, and alive. What will you cut out today to make space for what really matters?
An Honest Song
Love songs flood the airwaves, but too often, their messages twist love into pain, obsession, or heartbreak. What if we flipped the script?
Love Me, Lie to Me
“It’s like I’ve been searching for someone with your eyes and your quiet fire for years. I feel like I’ve known you forever.”
The New Marriage
The modern marriage has a new script: Fall in love → Get married (maybe) → Kids (maybe) → Divorce (maybe) → Therapy (definitely).
The Paradox of Timing
Should you leap or linger? Life is short, but some things like love, career growth, or healing simply can’t be rushed.
Let Them Be
When you outgrow the people you love, you’ll realize that letting go is one of the hardest parts of healing.
The Good Goodbye
I didn’t want to leave anyone behind. But I couldn’t keep staying in relationships that only wanted the broken version of me.
Healing Is Not Pretty
Healing doesn’t happen in a straight line. It’s a spiral—messy, nonlinear, and often invisible to everyone but you.
The Chair
Healing doesn’t look like the charts or the 7-step lists. It looks like sitting in a quiet room, trying to put words to a pain you barely understand.
Matching with Matcha
It’s more than just tea; it’s a ritual, a flavor, a feeling that runs deeper than the ordinary. This green magic captivates me endlessly.
Breakdowns Are Openings
My breakdown was an opening to confront what I’d been running from for so long. The silence, the emptiness, and the grief are all part of the path forward.
When Everything Comes Apart
In my unraveling, I found a secret passage hidden beneath the chaos. The heaviness I once feared wasn’t a punishment—it was an invitation.
Perfection Was a Cage
I cried over a 99—not because I cared about the score, but because perfection was the only thing anyone would accept. Behind every flawless smile was a quiet battle to just be real.