Words
I didn’t plan to say but needed to.
Somewhere between ennui and spark, my raw, unfiltered bits are here.
I’m a nerdy girl with a pen—the type who always carries a black Pilot Precise V5, has read thousands of books, and still scribbles in the margins. Sometimes I’m just writing back to an author who’ll never read it.
Maybe one day, all these scribbles will grow into books of their own.
The Second Secret
The Law of Attraction tells you to focus on the dream. But the Law of Integrity asks who you are without the dream.
Spider-Man and the Rubber Band Model
The Rubber Band Model isn’t just a framework for ambition. It’s a way to understand identity, love, healing, and the sacred friction of growth.
The Best Things Are Freckled
Love that lasts has seasons. It fades, returns, reshapes. It holds when skies go dark, bears storms like weathered wood—and stays.
Carrot vs. Stick
What really shapes a person—pain or praise? In one corner of the world, discipline is love. In another, love is protection from discipline.
Cutting Rapunzel’s Hair
Real growth doesn’t begin when we add more to our lives. It begins when we’re willing to release what no longer serves us.
I’m Not Interested
Saying it can feel strange at first—too direct, too final. But it’s a quiet decision to stop trading our time, energy, and attention for approval.
The One Dislike That Matters
We all say likes don’t matter. And yet, one low-like post can ruin our day. And that one “dislike” is probably the only honest thing on your screen.
Nice Isn’t a Strategy
Game theory shows that stable outcomes only emerge when players adjust their strategies—breaking old patterns to create new possibilities.
50 Shades of Human
Identifying as “super straight” in an era that honors fluidity is also a journey that can be raw, confusing, and deeply transformative.
The Power of Second Best
I used to think you had to be the best to win. Then I learned about a rule in auction theory that flipped everything I believed about success.
From Perfectionism to Playfulness
Whether painting or playing with a child, that little voice of doubt quietly creeps in, asking if this is really the best way to do it, or if there’s something better we’re missing out on.
The Cult of Busyness
You’re tired because you’ve forgotten how to rest. In a world that rewards constant motion, busyness becomes a mask we wear to feel worthy—until it breaks us.
Beyond Tesla
Fossil fuels are running out. Climate change isn’t waiting. Living a Net-Zero Energy life isn’t extreme—it’s essential.
Fortune Favors the Bold
Belief is only the beginning. The Law of Attraction works best when you stop waiting for signs and start moving like the outcome is already yours.
Bare Necessities
Choosing the bare necessities frees us to be truly present, creative, and alive. What will you cut out today to make space for what really matters?
An Honest Song
Love songs flood the airwaves, but too often, their messages twist love into pain, obsession, or heartbreak. What if we flipped the script?
The Biology of a Bedroom
You’re not imagining it. Your room might be the reason your dreams aren’t coming true. This isn’t woo; it’s design grounded in biology.
Spilling Cherries
They warned you about popping cherries—always in whispers, always about beginnings. But no one ever talks about what happens after.
Let Them Be
When you outgrow the people you love, you’ll realize that letting go is one of the hardest parts of healing.
The Good Goodbye
I didn’t want to leave anyone behind. But I couldn’t keep staying in relationships that only wanted the broken version of me.