Words
I didn’t plan to say but needed to.
Somewhere between ennui and spark, my raw, unfiltered bits are here.
I’m a nerdy girl with a pen—the type who always carries a black Pilot Precise V5, has read thousands of books, and still scribbles in the margins. Sometimes I’m just writing back to an author who’ll never read it.
Maybe one day, all these scribbles will grow into books of their own.
Too Pretty to Love?
Beauty can open doors, but it can also build walls around the heart. They see the face and the image, but do they see you?
Why Your Wins Make Them Walk Away
Some people only clap when they’re ahead. Watch who claps when you win. True friends don’t compete; they cheer.
Beyond C’est la Vie
Sainya begins where c’est la vie ends—not with a shrug, but with a choice. It’s the quiet rebellion of claiming truth over the script.
Escaping the Guilt Loop
Healing from narcissistic family dynamics isn’t linear. Some days you’ll feel strong—others, you’ll question everything.
The Helper Trap
Do you keep helping someone who drains you, just to feel important? You’re not alone. Recognize the helper trap and break free.
IQ 300
The smartest man in history didn’t change the world. He disappeared from it because the world didn’t know what to do with a mind like his.
Let’s Eat Grandma
One missing comma turned dinner into a crime scene. By the end of the day, I had alarmed my family and traumatized my coworkers.
The Art of Aging Gracefully
Aging gracefully means ditching the pressure to stay flawless and choosing presence over perfection. It’s not anti-aging. It’s pro-living.
The Potato Server
No name. No conversation. And yet, I genuinely believed the universe was orchestrating our love story through lunch trays.
When Love Is Control
Power trips aren’t about love or protection. They’re about control. You don’t have to play the game to win. You can walk away.
Good Daughters, Guilty Women
Many women carry guilt as a default setting. The cost is invisible, but it shows up in burnout, resentment, and the slow erosion of self.
The Space Between
Some stories aren’t about what happens. They’re about what almost does.
The Cinderella Archetype
These women don’t beg and don’t settle. They rise with vision, clarity, and standards that never apologize for asking for more.
Attraction Without Action
Not all longing asks for answers. Some feelings are meant to remain unfinished, beautiful in their quiet, unresolved state.
Sapiosexuals
For sapiosexuals, attraction begins in the mind. It’s not about IQ; it’s about curiosity, insight, and the thrill of a great conversation.
Surviving the Faces
They call it 脸色: the “colors of the face.” It’s the weather someone wears— shifting shades of storm and sun. Not all power is permanent.
重男轻女的代价
“重男轻女”是中国根深蒂固的性别偏见，不仅伤害了无数女性的成长与尊严，也带来了家庭失衡、社会问题、甚至国家层面的长期危害。
The Toxic Legacy of Son Preference
How the belief that boys matter more than girls still shapes lives in China—and beyond.
Two Ways to Starve
He keeps his Rolex wrapped tight, waiting for a moment that feels real. She orders oysters with borrowed money, chasing a self that might be loved.
Diary of a Gaslit Husband
She made lasagna. From scratch. Said I “deserve the world.” Wild, considering 12 hours ago I was the worst husband for asking if she was okay.