Words
I didn’t plan to say but needed to.
Somewhere between ennui and spark, my raw, unfiltered bits are here.
I’m a nerdy girl with a pen—the type who always carries a black Pilot Precise V5, has read thousands of books, and still scribbles in the margins. Sometimes I’m just writing back to an author who’ll never read it.
Maybe one day, all these scribbles will grow into books of their own.
Soft is Strong
This isn’t about giving up women’s power. It’s about reclaiming the kind of power that doesn’t require exhaustion to be felt.
Too Pretty to Love?
Beauty can open doors, but it can also build walls around the heart. They see the face and the image, but do they see you?
Do We Have Free Will?
At some point, we all face the question: do we truly choose our path, or are we simply walking a script written before we were born?
Why Your Wins Make Them Walk Away
Some people only clap when they’re ahead. Watch who claps when you win. True friends don’t compete; they cheer.
Consciousness and the Multiverse
This is an invitation to look beyond the familiar, rethink awareness, and imagine a universe more alive than ever imagined.
Fractals of Infinity
Fractals reveal that our universe is not a single, static entity but a vast, infinite tapestry of worlds nested within worlds.
The Illusion of Time
We plan for it, chase it, even fear it. But what if time isn’t real? Let’s unravel the illusion that shapes our lives.
Mind First, Then Matter
What if you could think yourself into health? Into peace? Into becoming the woman, man, or life you know is waiting for you?
When Helping Hurts
From church kitchens to elder care homes, I’ve learned real compassion starts with humility and respect. Empowerment is better than rescue.
Three Trips to Singapore
Singapore welcomed me back again. Not for romance. Not for escape. But to show up for someone else.
From Trash Food to Top Doctors
Some people work and spend. Others work and hoard. Here’s how to spend well, live well, and think differently about the currency of life.
Sonder Explained
People-watching isn’t a mindless hobby. It’s an education in empathy, timing, and human nuance.
Un Cappuccino e Un Pasticcino
Some places aren’t just destinations. They’re mirrors. They reflect parts of us we didn’t know we were carrying.
Designing a Hygge Home
In my favorite homes, there is always a mix of beauty and imperfection. These spaces do not apologize. They just hold you gently.
Beyond C’est la Vie
Sainya begins where c’est la vie ends—not with a shrug, but with a choice. It’s the quiet rebellion of claiming truth over the script.
Vanessa of Aurelia
In Aurelia, stone remembers and art shapes fate. I am Vanessa—a stranger summoned to build a hall of no repetition, where each surface sings.
The Myth of the Easy Life
No life is truly easy; pain and struggle show up in every story. What looks effortless from afar often hides a quiet battle.
Escaping the Guilt Loop
Healing from narcissistic family dynamics isn’t linear. Some days you’ll feel strong—others, you’ll question everything.
Rethinking Dyslexia
Dyslexia is often seen as a struggle, but it challenges our ideas of intelligence and communication.
The Helper Trap
Do you keep helping someone who drains you, just to feel important? You’re not alone. Recognize the helper trap and break free.