Stormy With a Chance of Ice Cream
Some Seasons Are Meant For Curling Up
Let it rain. You’ve got snacks.
There’s a particular heaviness in the air lately. Maybe it’s the economy, politics, or the fact that, no matter how hard you try, your paycheck never stretches far enough. Housing costs are up, groceries are outrageous, job opportunities feel scarce, and the weather isn’t helping either.
In times like these, we tend to tighten up—stress, binge, spiral, complain. We tell ourselves that if we work harder, do more, hustle through, it’ll pass. But what if the answer isn’t to fight the storm but to rest in it?
Cloudy Skies, Collective Sighs
There’s plenty to be frustrated about. The job market is tough, especially in construction and design. Health care costs are rising, sick days don’t always mean rest, and it’s harder than ever to afford a decent life without stress eating away at you.
We’re not just facing bad weather. We’re dealing with flawed systems. Most of us weren’t taught how to handle emotional storms except to “stay strong.” But strength isn’t always loud. Sometimes it’s slow.
The Spiral Rebrand
You know that odd window-shopping moment when you buy something random and then feel strangely lighter? That’s not failure. It’s intuition; it’s your soul asking for color, movement, and levity.
During hard times, many of us numb with food, scrolling, or complaining. But small creative sparks, like painting, picking candles, and arranging flowers, transform stuck energy into joy.
The spiral softens when you stop judging it.
Ice Cream Is a Strategy
Not every sunny day feels happy, and not every gloomy day is lost. Sometimes what we need isn’t sunshine but time. Time to nap without guilt, binge a show without shame, read, take a course, or let music fill the room.
During lockdown, many of us learned this the hard way. We found hiking trails, crafted by hand, picked up old books. That softness is still available to us, even without a global shutdown to justify it.
You’re Not Lost in the Storm
The pandemic taught us more than hygiene. It showed us how deeply we worry, how quickly we panic, and how, when forced to slow down, we actually become more whole.
Hard seasons don’t mean failure. They mean preparation for deeper joy, better choices, and relationships that nourish us.
The world urges us to rush. But healing, clarity, and inspiration come in waves, and you can’t force the tide.
No Lemons Required
This isn’t about silver linings or making lemonade. You don’t need to slap a smiley sticker on hard times or pretend everything’s fine.
It’s about knowing that quiet joy is resistance. And rest? That’s rebellion.
Storms don’t stop your story. You’re not failing. You’re just in your quiet joy era.